COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
ANGER & FRUSTRATION
Many of us unconsciously find ourselves in relationships with aggressive or emotionally volatile partners. We often choose people who display the same patterns we once experienced in childhood — the so-called
“Bear in the Living Room” Syndrome.
We repeat what we know. When you grow up around emotional chaos, conflict, or aggression, it becomes your normal. As adults, we unconsciously recreate those dynamics — either by tolerating them, provoking them, or becoming the aggressive one ourselves.
Sometimes, the hardest truth to face is that we are the ones carrying the anger, without understanding why. That too often has deep roots in childhood pain and unresolved trauma.
In this session, I help you identify your triggers, understand your emotional patterns, and break the cycle of aggression — whether you are on the receiving end, or the one who explodes. Together, we create space for awareness, accountability, and emotional safety — the foundation of every healthy relationship.
THE PROCESS & HOW I HELP
Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.
Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.
You allow me to be radically honest. I’ll help you see what’s really going on — beyond excuses, stories, and fear. Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.
Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.
Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.
If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.
My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.
My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.
PS:
If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others
you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.
IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.
Review by: Francis, London
I knew something in my relationship was triggering me — but I didn’t know what. It got bad — really bad.
Then I found Alek. As someone who has faced his own battles, he was able to truly feel me, and I immediately felt safe to open up completely.
Through our work together, I not only discovered the real trigger — the moment of trauma in my childhood — but I also managed to save my relationship.
I learned how to take care of my wife, how to stop hurting her — and how to stop hurting myself.
WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH
“Coaching is too expensive.
➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.
“I can’t find the right coach for me.”
➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.
“I always fall back into old patterns.”
➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.
💬 What I Do
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.
Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!
Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.