Review by Richard, Berlin
Thank God, I found Alek!
Before I found Alek, I was completely out of tune with myself. I didn’t know what I needed — or maybe I just didn’t want to face it. What started as casual drug use eventually became a quiet routine that took control of my life. I wasn’t using every day, but it was enough to make me unreliable, disconnected, and lost. The meth, the sleeping pills — it all blurred together. I began missing work, losing confidence, and I couldn’t build real relationships anymore, because there was always that question in the back of my mind: will I have to give up drugs for this person?
Then I came across Alek’s story. His honesty about his own struggles made me feel safe enough to reach out, so I booked a F*ckFear Clarity Call. That single session changed something fundamental. Alek didn’t lecture or tell me what to do — he mirrored me. He helped me understand why I started using in the first place, and how I could begin to manage my life instead of letting the substances manage me.
It’s been three years since that call. I’m not completely clean, that was never my goal, but I use with control, maybe two, three, sometimes four times a year. I’m calm, centred, and more myself than I’ve ever been. For the first time in years, I feel like I am connecting with myself, without constantly searching for answers or trying to fix myself.
CHEMSEX
From escapism to embodiment — it’s time to take back control.
Chemsex isn’t just about sex or drugs.
It’s about numbing what was never healed — the shame, the loneliness, the craving for connection and validation.
You don’t need judgement. You need reflection, honesty, and someone who understands the spiral — because he’s lived it.
I used chems for years — chasing intensity, connection, and escape.
It took me a long time to realise I wasn’t addicted to the high, but to the feeling of not having to feel.
That’s why this work exists: not to preach, but to help you understand what’s really driving it, and to take back control from the inside out.
Who this is for
Men and women who use substances (meth, G, coke, etc.) during sex or to escape emotional pain — and are ready to stop letting it define them.
Especially powerful for gay and queer men caught in the cycle of validation, performance, and emotional emptiness.
This isn’t about forcing yourself to get clean.
It’s about becoming in charge — of your choices, your body, your boundaries, and your peace.
When you lead your mind, the rest follows.
⚡THE PROCESS
It all starts with a 30-minute F*ckFear Clarity Call (€79)
one truth, no sugar-coating.
You bring your biggest challenge,
and I’ll tell you what you need to hear — not what you want to hear.
This call cracks illusions, breaks comfort zones,
and sparks real aha-moments — sometimes even a full mindset shift.
💭 (34% of the time, this call alone is enough.)
Afterwards, we take 24 hours to reflect.
If we vibe, I’ll design your personalised Hardcore Reset Programme
a 30-day deep dive with three sessions
(60–120 min each, every 10 days).
Or we’ll continue with occasional sessions
I’ll tell you what’s best.
Then comes the Afterwork Phase
1 monthly session for 3–6 months,
where new habits deepen and the old ones lose power.
💰 Investment:
Sliding-scale, adjusted to your income
because transformation shouldn’t be a luxury. (Usual Investment 1200-2800)
🔥 My Guarantee:
If no aha-moment or mindset shift happens during your F*ckFear Call,
you’ll be fully refunded the same day.
👉 Start with your F*ckFear Call
(END OF YEAR PROMO FROM 75 TO 49 EUROS)
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Accept that something is off
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Stop The Blame Game & Take Responsibility
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Start being Kind to Yourself
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Get Help & Allow Yourself Invest in Yourself
Why most people can't find a good coach
1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.
2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.
3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.
🚫 Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
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Stop seeking approval.
You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
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Stop avoiding discomfort.
Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
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Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility.
Every excuse is just fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
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Stop comparing yourself.
Your life is not a race. Comparison is self-sabotage.
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Stop lying to yourself.
Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.