COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
NO MORE FAMLY
Family estrangement is hard — no matter which side you’re on.
Whether you’re the one who walked away or the one who was left behind — it hurts.
The reasons often feel necessary — boundaries, survival, protection —
especially when the family dynamic was toxic or abusive.
And sometimes, walking away truly is the healthiest choice.
But the real pain isn’t just in the distance.
It’s in the silence, the guilt,
and the grief of being cut off from the people
who were supposed to love you the most.
It takes time to make sense of this kind of loss.
Time to untangle love from pain.
And it begins with one radical act:
choosing your own well-being over guilt and shame.
That’s not easy.
Especially for those of us who learned to sacrifice ourselves
just to keep the peace — no matter the cost.
It’s not easy for parents who’ve been shut out by their adult children —
or for children who had to leave to protect themselves.
The wound runs both ways.
But healing is possible.
Understanding is possible.
Peace is possible.
This session helps you unpack your story,
find your ground again,
and learn how to live — or even love —
without losing yourself.
You don’t have to carry this alone.
THE PROCESS & HOW I HELP
Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.
Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.
You allow me to be radically honest. I’ll help you see what’s really going on — beyond excuses, stories, and fear. Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.
Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.
Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.
If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.
My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.
My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.
PS:
If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others
you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.
IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.
Review by: Tim , Cologne
I had to make the very hard decision, after years of working on myself, personal development and so forth, to let my sister, my brother, and my mother go — basically kick them out of my life. Their toxicity not only stalled but grew by generation, and all I knew was that I needed to let them go. And I started it. But it felt so painful until I booked Alek, and he himself had to undergo this particular situation over and over. He was able to make me understand through talking to me about his experience as a peer, and that really resonated with me.
It’s still not easy, but I feel I get now, that no matter how hard I work on myself — if the people that are close to me are toxic, so will I be. Especially family, as they will trigger you and you will stay stuck. And that, I knew for sure, was no longer an option for me.
So thank you, Alek.
WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH
“Coaching is too expensive.
➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.
“I can’t find the right coach for me.”
➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.
“I always fall back into old patterns.”
➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.
💬 What I Do
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.
Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!
Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.