COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
HIV
HIV Coaching — From Fear to Freedom
Getting diagnosed with HIV changes everything — not just in your body, but in your mind. The shock, the shame, the why me — they can hit harder than the virus itself.
You start questioning your worth, your future, your love life, even your right to feel normal again.
And that’s where I come in.
I’ve been there — not just as a coach, but as someone who has lived through it. I know the fear, the anger, the self-blame. And I also know that at some point, you get tired of feeling like a victim.
This is the moment where you take your power back. In our sessions, we’ll talk honestly — about your fears, your health, your relationships, your life. We’ll face the things others avoid, and turn your story from why me into watch me.
You’ll learn how to: Rebuild self-worth after diagnosis Manage emotional triggers and shame, Reconnect with your body and confidence, Create healthy intimacy again — without fear, Shift from surviving to truly living
This isn’t medical advice — it’s human support.
It’s a conversation that reminds you: HIV doesn’t define you — you define what comes next.
THE PROCESS & HOW I HELP
Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.
Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.
You allow me to be radically honest. I’ll help you see what’s really going on — beyond excuses, stories, and fear. Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.
Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.
Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.
If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.
My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.
My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.
PS:
If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others
you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.
IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.
Review by: Patrick, London
When I infected myself with HIV, I completely fell into victim mode and spiralled down fast.
Physically, I didn’t really have any symptoms — but mentally, I was falling apart.
I kept thinking, Now I’ve got it. No one’s ever going to want to date me again. Why did this happen to me?
It became a loop of self-blame and despair.
Then, by chance, I came across Alek’s story — how he, too, in one of the weakest moments of his life, had self-infected with HIV, and how he turned that experience into empowerment.
That gave me the courage to book a call with him.
During the session, Alek was brutally honest — almost shockingly so.
But his words hit me deeply: You have it because you didn’t protect yourself. Now you have a choice — stay a victim, or become empowered.
That moment changed everything for me.
I finally understood that I could take back control — and that my diagnosis didn’t have to define me.
WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH
“Coaching is too expensive.
➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.
“I can’t find the right coach for me.”
➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.
“I always fall back into old patterns.”
➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.
💬 What I Do
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.
Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!
Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.