COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
ALEK MARTIN AKA WHITETRASHROYAL — YOUR TICKET TO let go AND BUILD TRUE INDEPENDENCE
ARE YOU?
Lost, restless, angry, empty? You think you’re “just stressed.” You’re not. You’re carrying wounds that were never yours, and they’re still calling the shots.
👉 Your nervous system is fucked — and it will stay fucked until you do the work. There is no peace without healing
You Wake Up and Something Feels Off. Maybe it’s the anxiety, the loneliness, the chaos in your head. Maybe it’s the relationships that keep breaking, or the silence you carry because no one ever really saw you. I know that place. I grew up with rejection, addiction, loss — and for years I lived on autopilot, ruled by wounds I didn’t even choose.
But here’s the truth: it doesn’t have to stay like this. The pain is real, but so is the way out. I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to walk with you through the mess, cut through the lies, and help you find yourself again.
To Whom I Speak
You — the adult child of someone who never healed before bringing you into this world.
You’ve carried pain that was never yours — shame, rejection, the weight of your parents’ wounds. Maybe you numb it, maybe you explode, maybe you quietly self-sabotage. None of this is your fault, but it is your responsibility now. I help you break free from the past, stop repeating old cycles, and finally live as the adult you were meant to be.
And if you are already a parent — or want to become one — it is your duty to heal before you pass the pain on. Because if you don’t, your child will be left carrying wounds that were never theirs, forced to heal from you. My mission is to make sure that cycle stops here.
Start Taking Care of Yourself
No one is coming to save you — and it’s not their job. Even if you find someone willing to play that role, it will never be a partnership, only a caretaker–child bond. And that will never satisfy you. Real change begins the moment you decide to stop carrying what isn’t yours.
THE PROCESS & HOW I HELP
Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.
Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.
You allow me to be radically honest. I’ll help you see what’s really going on — beyond excuses, stories, and fear. Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.
Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.
Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.
If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.
My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.
My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.
PS:
If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others
you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.
IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.
Review by: Frances, London
I knew nothing about trauma — and definitely not about generational trauma. All I knew was that I felt unwell, off, like something was ruling me, and I was almost never aligned with my own decisions.
Then in just one krass, hour-long session with Alek it hit me: I wasn’t living my life. I was living my parents’ life — their programming, their shames, their downfalls, their beliefs. They raised me with very little awareness of self, and I had carried it all.
Alek’s approach is krass, bold, yet incredibly kind at the same time. His massive life experience guided me to become a much more aware — and proud — person than I ever thought I could be.
Since that first session three years ago, I’ve been working with Alek on multiple layers of my life. He’s like a mirror to my inner child — honest, direct, and always spot-on. It’s not just coaching. It feels like having a buddy who gets it — and who helps me finally get myself.
PS: I can talk to him about everything, no shame, no judgment!
WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH
“Coaching is too expensive.
➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.
“I can’t find the right coach for me.”
➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.
“I always fall back into old patterns.”
➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.
💬 What I Do
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.
Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!
Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.