COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
SOS
When things feel urgent, stuck, or on the edge — this is the space to clear the air, find your truth, and say what’s not being said.
THE PROCESS & HOW I HELP
Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.
Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.
You allow me to be radically honest. I’ll help you see what’s really going on — beyond excuses, stories, and fear. Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.
Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.
Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.
If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.
My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.
My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.
PS:
If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others
you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.
IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.
Review by: Mechelen Family, Anvers
We were facing a family issue that none of us could see clearly anymore. We didn’t need another opinion — we needed someone to see through the noise and show us the truth. I booked Alek’s same-day session, and within two hours, we had help. Straight talk, deep empathy, even a few laughs — and by the end, all four of us made a decision that actually felt right for everyone.
I ended up continuing with individual coaching, because I realised the problem wasn’t just the situation — it was also how I was parenting, and how I was showing up in my career. Alek helped me shift both. He’s honest, intuitive, and radically supportive. I can only recommend him.
Review by: Marco & Pierre, Milan
We were on the edge. Not just of breaking up — but of breaking down.
We’d stopped talking, sex was gone, and everything turned into blame or silence.
The Couples SOS session wasn’t some fluffy advice session. It was raw, uncomfortable, and exactly what we needed.
Alek didn’t pick sides. He saw through the patterns we’d normalised and named the real problem — fast.
That one session cracked something open. We left shaken, but clearer than we’d been in years.
If you’re spiralling and need someone who gets it — who’ll say what others won’t — book it.
WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH
“Coaching is too expensive.
➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.
“I can’t find the right coach for me.”
➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.
“I always fall back into old patterns.”
➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.
💬 What I Do
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.
Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!
Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.