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The Boitano Family, Dallas.USA

So Helpful.

Our son started changing — slowly becoming someone we didn’t recognise. I guess that’s normal in the teenage years. But my wife and I… we had lost each other. No passion. No real connection. And I had become a stranger to it all. Then came the shock: our son got arrested. That was the wake-up call. It became painfully clear — he was mirroring us.

 

We searched, and we found Alek. From the first moment, he felt like part of the family — but not the kind that takes sides or sugarcoats. He told us what we needed to hear. He mirrored each of us in a way that helped us understand ourselves and each other. The deep work took around four months. The follow-up work another four. But the result? Our son is on a far better path, and my wife and I rediscovered something we thought was gone — intimacy, connection, and a spark that still burns. Thank you, Alek.

THE HARDCORE RESET FAMILIES

A 30-DAY TRANSFORMATIVE PROGRAM.

PURE MIRRORING. TRUTH. MEDIATION.

EVERYTHING YOU CAN’T GET FROM FRIENDS, FAMILY — OR GOD KNOWS WHO ELSE.

For when you’ve reached your limit — and pretending isn’t an option anymore.
 
This isn’t a soft chat about “better communication.”
This is a structured, honest, and disruptive process designed to break through emotional shutdown, sexual disconnect, trauma responses, betrayal, resentment, and the silent grief of unmet needs.
 
Whether you’re fighting, coexisting, or standing at the edge — this reset is for couples who want to stop surviving and finally start living.
 
 
⚡️ The Process: 3 Core Phases + Integration
 
 
Session 1: What’s Really Going On?
 
We map your lives — together and apart.
No filters. Just truth.
You’ll get a written report + raw homework that shakes things up.
 
 
Session 2 (10 days later): Why Is This Happening?
 
We dive into the trauma, the roles you’re stuck in, and the unmet needs.
New insights, deep pattern work, and uncomfortable truths.
More homework. This is where most couples start to feel the shift.
 
 
Session 3 (10 days later): What Now?
 
Clarity becomes action.
Who do you need to stop performing for?
What starts, what ends, what boundaries are non-negotiable?
You leave with a clear plan — if you’re ready to do the work.
 
 
🧠 My Belief
 
ADHD. Anxiety. Shutdowns. Rage. Infidelity. Co-dependency.
These are not who you are.
They’re coping strategies — developed in chaos, repeated in adulthood.
 
To truly heal, you don’t need more labels.
You need truth. And a structure to rebuild connection.
 
 
🔍 How I Work
 
I listen for what the other stopped hearing.
I name what nobody dared to say.
I hold space for emotional chaos, intimacy wounds, imbalance, silence, and unspoken grief.
 
Together, we uncover:
 

  • Childhood trauma responses

  • Caretaker/child dynamics

  • Hidden rage and invisible labour

  • Emotional neglect and avoidance cycles

  • Longstanding power struggles

 
 
🛠 Programme Structure
 
 
🔹 Phase 1: The Intensive Reset (4 Weeks)
 

  • 4 × 1-hour solo sessions per person

  • 4 × 90-min couple sessions

    We go fast and deep. You’ll understand what’s wrong — and why you keep repeating it.

 
 
🔹 Phase 2: Truth & Reflection (2 Weeks)
 

  • We pause. You reflect.

    This is not a performance. This is where the truth surfaces.

 
 
🔹 Phase 3: Anchoring Growth (2 Weeks)
 

  • 2 × 60-min solo sessions per person

  • 1 × 90-min couple session

    We strengthen what’s shifting and deal with what’s still stuck.

 
 
🔹 Phase 4: Integration & Support (3 Months)
 

  • Every 2 weeks:

    → 30-min solo per person

    → 45-min couple session monthly

    We don’t let the old pattern sneak back. This phase locks in real change.

 
 
💶 Investment Breakdown
 
Individuals:
 

  • 6 full solo sessions × €150 = €1,800

  • 3 mini check-ins × €75 = €450

    → Total: €2,250

 
Couples Sessions:
 

  • 5 × 90-min = €1,875

  • 3 × 45-min = €562.50

    → Total: €2,437.50

 
➡️ Grand Total: €4,687.50
(Payment plans available)
 
 
🔑 Before We Begin
 
We start with a 60-min Clarity Session (€250).
No fluff. Just a deep, one-time truth session.
After that, we both take 24 hours to decide if we commit to the full reset.
 
 
🧨 This is for you if…
 

  • You’re stuck in survival mode, but still want to make it work

  • You’ve tried therapy, but nothing ever changed

  • You’re ready to stop blaming — and start rebuilding, or ending things with clarity

  • You want truth over performance

 
If this sounds like you:
👉 Book your 60-min Clarity Session (€250) — it might be all you need, you never know.
And if not, no worries — the fee will be credited towards any full package you choose later.

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