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Review by Lizzy & Gustav, Stockholm

We were dying-not anymore

We thought we needed to communicate better — turns out, we needed to wake up.”

The Hardcore Reset was intense. It wasn’t about fixing symptoms — it was about breaking the cycle.

We faced the real reasons we kept hurting each other: old wounds, hidden roles, emotional burnout.

The structure pushed us — solo work, couple sessions, deep reflection. No place to hide.

Alek doesn’t sugar-coat. He sees everything. But he also holds space like no one else.

This wasn’t about saving the relationship at all costs. It was about choosing truth — and either rebuilding with it or walking away without guilt.

We stayed. But we’re not the same.

If your relationship feels like it’s dying slowly, this is the defibrillator.

THE HARDCORE RESET COUPLES

A 30-DAY TRANSFORMATIVE PROGRAM.

PURE MIRRORING. TRUTH. MEDIATION.

EVERYTHING YOU CAN’T GET FROM FRIENDS, FAMILY — OR GOD KNOWS WHO ELSE.

 For when you’ve reached your limit — and pretending isn’t an option anymore.
 
This isn’t a soft chat about “better communication.”
This is a structured, honest, and disruptive process designed to break through emotional shutdown, sexual disconnect, trauma responses, betrayal, resentment, and the silent grief of unmet needs.
 
Whether you’re fighting, coexisting, or standing at the edge — this reset is for couples who want to stop surviving and finally start living.
 
 
⚡️ The Process: 3 Core Phases + Integration
 
 
Session 1: What’s Really Going On?
 
We map your lives — together and apart.
No filters. Just truth.
You’ll get a written report + raw homework that shakes things up.
 
 
Session 2 (10 days later): Why Is This Happening?
 
We dive into the trauma, the roles you’re stuck in, and the unmet needs.
New insights, deep pattern work, and uncomfortable truths.
More homework. This is where most couples start to feel the shift.
 
 
Session 3 (10 days later): What Now?
 
Clarity becomes action.
Who do you need to stop performing for?
What starts, what ends, what boundaries are non-negotiable?
You leave with a clear plan — if you’re ready to do the work.
 
 
🧠 My Belief
 
ADHD. Anxiety. Shutdowns. Rage. Infidelity. Co-dependency.
These are not who you are.
They’re coping strategies — developed in chaos, repeated in adulthood.
 
To truly heal, you don’t need more labels.
You need truth. And a structure to rebuild connection.
 
 
🔍 How I Work
 
I listen for what the other stopped hearing.
I name what nobody dared to say.
I hold space for emotional chaos, intimacy wounds, imbalance, silence, and unspoken grief.
 
Together, we uncover:

 

  • Childhood trauma responses

  • Caretaker/child dynamics

  • Hidden rage and invisible labour

  • Emotional neglect and avoidance cycles

  • Longstanding power struggles

 
 
🛠 Programme Structure
 
 
🔹 Phase 1: The Intensive Reset (4 Weeks)

 

  • 4 × 1-hour solo sessions per person

  • 4 × 90-min couple sessions

    We go fast and deep. You’ll understand what’s wrong — and why you keep repeating it.

 
 
🔹 Phase 2: Truth & Reflection (2 Weeks)

 

  • We pause. You reflect.

    This is not a performance. This is where the truth surfaces.

 
 
🔹 Phase 3: Anchoring Growth (2 Weeks)

 

  • 2 × 60-min solo sessions per person

  • 1 × 90-min couple session

    We strengthen what’s shifting and deal with what’s still stuck.

 
 
🔹 Phase 4: Integration & Support (3 Months)

 

  • Every 2 weeks:

    → 30-min solo per person

    → 45-min couple session monthly

    We don’t let the old pattern sneak back. This phase locks in real change.

 
 
💶 Investment Breakdown
 
Individuals:

 

  • 6 full solo sessions × €150 = €1,800

  • 3 mini check-ins × €75 = €450

    → Total: €2,250

 
Couples Sessions:

 

  • 5 × 90-min = €1,875

  • 3 × 45-min = €562.50

    → Total: €2,437.50

 
➡️ Grand Total: €4,687.50
(Payment plans available)
 
 
🔑 Before We Begin
 
We start with a 60-min Clarity Session (€250).
No fluff. Just a deep, one-time truth session.
After that, we both take 24 hours to decide if we commit to the full reset.
 
 
🧨 This is for you if…

 

  • You’re stuck in survival mode, but still want to make it work

  • You’ve tried therapy, but nothing ever changed

  • You’re ready to stop blaming — and start rebuilding, or ending things with clarity

  • You want truth over performance

 
If this sounds like you:


👉 Book your 60-min Clarity Session (€250) — it might be all you need, you never know.
And if not, no worries — the fee will be credited towards any full package you choose later.

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