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FACT

Let’s be honest, we all carry a story. Some form of trauma or pain.
But the real damage isn’t just what happened, it’s the story we keep telling ourselves, and others, about it.
That’s where the suffering lives.
That’s where the self-victimisation hides disguised as truth.
Once you accept it, understand it, and vomit the pain out, with a real, authentic decision to let it go — and real help, you can finally rewrite a more honest, kinder version of your life.
One where you’re no longer the continuation of your past.
That’s what I did. And it changed everything.

THE PROCESS

 

 

Book your F*ckFear Clarity Call — bring your biggest challenge.

Purpose, love, addiction, anger, business — nothing’s off-limits.

 

You allow me to be radically honest.

Leave with insight — or get a full refund the same day.

 

Online, Worldwise. 30 min. €75. in four Languages EN / DE / FR / LU.

Same price for individuals, couples, families, and teams.

 

If we vibe, we’ll go deeper with a personalised concept.

My fees are based on your income — trust me, you’ll be able to afford it.

 

My only ask: Show up empowered — not as a victim.

 

PS:

If you’re ready to make your pain bigger than yourself and help others

you can allow me to record and share our session — your choice.

IF YOU’RE LUCKY, YOU MIGHT CATCH ME TODAY. BOOK AND FIND OUT.

Review by: Michael Schlutt, H&M HR Director Germany

Working with Alek is just different. Within minutes, I was able to be me — and I mean me. It almost felt like talking to my best mate. He’s incredibly kind, yet in the same breath, brutally honest. I’ve been with Alek for years now, and every session is still as insightful as the first.

Clients:

H&M Germany, Austria – Harrods London – House of Entrepreneurship Luxembourg – Autowelt Zurich – Blank Spaces Berlin – some that can’t be mentioned – and around 150 private clients.

WHO I AM

 

I’m a severe childhood trauma survivor, a former pro athlete. I’ve lived in nine countries and speak four languages. I became a millionaire in my twenties — and lost it all in my thirties after losing my beloved grand-mother. HIV. Drugs. Bankruptcy. Homelessness. I even sold my body for cash until I stopped giving a shit, made my pain bigger than myself, and started helping others.

 

Not out of selflessness — but because helping others helps me. If you want to read more, check out Alek.

 

The way I help is simple: I know how to listen — from a place of pain, rejection, and success. Combined with my huge Life-experience, cultures, and languages, I mirror you kindly — yet so crass that there’s no way you’ll leave without insight. PS: LOVE DOGS

AlekMartin aka Whitetrashroyal.com

WHY MOST PEOPLE CAN’T FIND A GOOD COACH

 

“Coaching is too expensive.

➤ With me, You pay based on your income — and if money’s an issue, we’ll find a way.

 

“I can’t find the right coach for me.”

➤ I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. You’ll know if we vibe or not within the Fuckfear Clarity call.

 

“I always fall back into old patterns.”

➤ Real change needs consistency. After the main process, I require one session per month — for as long as it takes to make the change last.

💬 What I Do

 

Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.

Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.

Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.

Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you. HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.

Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.

 

And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:

Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others. Building your own business (even your own website).

Rebuilding your body and health without shame. Attracting better people — including that special someone.

Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now

 

Stop seeking approval. You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.

Stop avoiding discomfort. Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.

Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility. Every excuse is blame and fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.

Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is self-sabotage, Comparison is everything, but you!

Stop lying to yourself. Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.

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