COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
Luke Bartith, London. UK
I felt so much pain, then came Alek.
I had to make the very hard decision, after years of working on myself, personal development and so forth, to let my sister, my brother, and my mother go — basically kick them out of my life. Their toxicity not only stalled but grew by generation, and all I knew was that I needed to let them go. And I started it. But it felt so painful until I booked Alek, and he himself had to undergo this particular situation over and over. He was able to make me understand through talking to me about his experience as a peer, and that really resonated with me.
It’s still not easy, but I feel I get now, that no matter how hard I work on myself — if the people that are close to me are toxic, so will I be. Especially family, as they will trigger you and you will stay stuck. And that, I knew for sure, was no longer an option for me.
So thank you, Alek.
NO MORE FAMILY
Family estrangement is hard — no matter which side you’re on.
Whether you’re the one who walked away, or the one who was left behind, it cuts deep.
The reasons often feel necessary — boundaries, survival, protection — especially when the family dynamic was toxic or abusive.
And sometimes, walking away really is the healthiest choice.
But the real ache isn’t just in the distance.
It’s in the silence, the guilt, and the grief of being cut off from the people who were supposed to love you most.
It takes time to make sense of that kind of loss.
Time to untangle love from pain.
And it begins with one radical act: choosing your own well-being without shame.
That’s not easy.
Especially for those of us who were raised to sacrifice ourselves for family, or to keep peace no matter the cost.
It’s not easy for parents who’ve been shut out by their adult children — or for children who’ve had to protect themselves by leaving.
The wound runs both ways.
But healing is possible.
Understanding is possible.
Peace is possible.
This session helps you unpack the story, find your ground again, and learn how to live — or even love — without losing yourself.
You don’t have to carry this alone.
⚡THE PROCESS
It all starts with a 30-minute F*ckFear Clarity Call (€79)
one truth, no sugar-coating.
You bring your biggest challenge,
and I’ll tell you what you need to hear — not what you want to hear.
This call cracks illusions, breaks comfort zones,
and sparks real aha-moments — sometimes even a full mindset shift.
💭 (34% of the time, this call alone is enough.)
Afterwards, we take 24 hours to reflect.
If we vibe, I’ll design your personalised Hardcore Reset Programme
a 30-day deep dive with three sessions
(60–120 min each, every 10 days).
Or we’ll continue with occasional sessions
I’ll tell you what’s best.
Then comes the Afterwork Phase
1 monthly session for 3–6 months,
where new habits deepen and the old ones lose power.
💰 Investment:
Sliding-scale, adjusted to your income
because transformation shouldn’t be a luxury. (Usual Investment 1200-2800)
🔥 My Guarantee:
If no aha-moment or mindset shift happens during your F*ckFear Call,
you’ll be fully refunded the same day.
👉 Start with your F*ckFear Call
(END OF YEAR PROMO FROM 75 TO 49 EUROS)
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The Fact
As a parent, you are both the victim and the aggressor in the same person — and that’s what you need to understand!
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Why most people can't find a good coach
1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.
2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.
3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.
🚫 Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
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Stop seeking approval.
You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
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Stop avoiding discomfort.
Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
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Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility.
Every excuse is just fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
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Stop comparing yourself.
Your life is not a race. Comparison is self-sabotage.
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Stop lying to yourself.
Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.