COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
BREAK THE CYCLE
💥 You’ve Survived What Most Couldn’t — Yet You Still Doubt Your Worth
You’ve carried pain that was never yours — from your parents, your past, or the choices you didn’t make in time.
That’s where I come in.
I’m Alek Martin — a trauma and reality-check mentor, writer, speaker, ex-pro athlete, and survivor of severe childhood trauma and a heavy, yet enriching life.
I work with individuals, couples, and families through crisis, loss, and growth.
My approach is radically honest, deeply empathetic, and to the point.
You’ll hear what you need to hear — not what you want to hear.
This is not therapy.
It’s about facing truth, breaking patterns, and building a life that finally fits who you are.
I work online, worldwide — in English, German, French, and Luxembourgish.
My fees are based on income so support stays accessible for everyone.
⚡ The F*ckFear Clarity Call
Known for my 30-minute F*ckFear Call (€75) — one truth, no sugar-coating.
If we vibe, we go deeper. If not, you’ll still walk away with clarity.
And if you don’t experience an aha moment or a real shift in perspective,
you’ll be refunded the same day.
💬 What I Do
I work with individuals, couples, families, and even organisations through crisis, trauma, loss, and all the shadows:
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you.
HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others.
Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame.
Attracting better people — including that special someone.
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The Fact
As a parent, you are both the victim and the aggressor in the same person — and that’s what you need to understand!
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Accept that something is off
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Stop The Blame Game & Take Responsibility
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Start being Kind to Yourself
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Get Help & Allow Yourself Invest in Yourself
Why most people can't find a good coach
1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.
2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.
3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.
🚫 Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
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Stop seeking approval.
You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
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Stop avoiding discomfort.
Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
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Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility.
Every excuse is just fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
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Stop comparing yourself.
Your life is not a race. Comparison is self-sabotage.
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Stop lying to yourself.
Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.