
Hi, I'm Alek, an online peer counsellor, coach, & survivor of severe childhood trauma, and I assist on understanding trauma, deepening relational intimacy, and repairing or letting go of family bonds. And once you’ve come home to yourself, we move forward: body. work. relationships.
How It Works
Book your session directly through the links on my website.
Same-day appointments are often available.
I work daily from 6:00 to 20:00 CET – ideal for all time zones. Weekends included.
We meet via Zoom or WhatsApp, usually voice-only to make it easier to open up.
(Video is also possible – especially for couples, families or teams.)
You’ll need a quiet, safe space – because we go deep.
I speak four languages, so we’ll use the one you’re most comfortable with.
After the session, there’s no commute, no pressure – just space to reflect and breathe.
It’s simple. It’s powerful. It works.
Feeling triggered, stressed, uneasy, not well? Breathe in for 4. Hold for 4. Breathe out for 4. Repeat 3 times. Still need to talk, maybe even today?
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You’re not ill.
You’re still running on the same coping mechanisms that once saved you as a kid.
But now, they fuck you up —
because as an adult, you keep recreating trauma just to keep those mechanisms alive.
ADHD. PTSD. Anxiety. Depression. Chronic Fatigue. Panic Attacks. OCD. Bipolar.
They’re not just diagnoses. They’re coping mechanisms.
And you keep feeding them.
You keep them alive.
You keep the person — the event — that hurt you alive.
If you want to change that, you need to understand why these coping strategies exist in the first place. There is no other way!
Trauma =
your parents’ unresolved wounds & actions + your silence, surrender — or even revolt
= You living and repeating their story, not yours
= unhappiness, anxiety, disconnection, low energy, burnout, toxic relationships, unproductive work life, and parenting that doesn’t feel like love — an unauthentic & hard life!
Freedom =
facing the truth + breaking the pattern = choosing for you = peace of mind, more energy, better choices, love that feels real — better relationships (mainly with you), better career, better parenting — an authentic, more honest and fun life that’s finally yours.
Once we’ve faced the trauma,
cleared your mind, and reset your will to live — we move forward.
Now you’re ready to want more. To turn your passion into a business. To take care of your body. To allow yourself happiness — and actually believe you deserve it.
And I’ll be right there with YOU.
What People say about me:
Alek is not someone who just talks, nor is he someone who simply listens.
He draws from immense life experience and cleverly integrates it into context. He is empathetic yet honest and speaks his mind directly.
Alek delves into the places where traces of the past still show — even if those are the exact pain points. Rarely have I encountered someone who challenged me so deeply without me even realising it. And rarely have I experienced so many moments that shook me up and genuinely prepared me for the future.
Years of therapy and even day clinic stays were lukewarm preparation for what I’m now achieving with him. Alek has given me new structures that actually equip me for whatever might come next. And when life does wobble again — he’s there.
Thank you for that.
Johann Skierka, Blank-Spaces, Berlin
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