COACHING & MENTORING fOR REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL F*CKING PROBLEMS
Review by Alex, Paris
I hated it!
For whatever reason, I started escorting. It was fast money, and most of the time the work was easy — 15, maybe 30 minutes, and I’d walk away with €150 or more depending on the country.
But every time I did it, I hated myself. I LOST myself every client a bit more until there was nothing left to loose.
I couldn’t build the relationships I craved — to love and be loved. I was ashamed of what I was doing, and because of that shame, I didn’t have many friends outside the scene.
Drugs, steroids, and sex all became part of the same vicious cycle — one I didn’t know how to escape.
And most importantly, I didn’t know who to talk to.
Escorting is such a taboo subject; people simply don’t want to hear about it.
Then I came across Alek’s story — how he too had found himself caught in the escorting world. That’s when I booked a call.
From the very first conversation, something changed.
Over the years, Alek has helped me not only leave escorting behind, but also rediscover my passion, rebuild my confidence, and create my own self-employed work.
Through him, I’ve been able to face so many different issues I never thought I’d have the courage to confront.
I am deeply, eternally grateful for Alek’s guidance.
Big hugs and much love to you, my dear, you helped me get my life back.
SEXWORK
For those who want out — and don’t know how.
Escorting, sex work, prostitution — they’re basically siblings in a way.
I guess escorting is just a nicer word for prostitution, except that you don’t have a pimp, and you can actually look at who you’re going to sleep with.
And if you’re a good-looking person, you can even choose.
But the big question is: what does it do to you when you are selling your body — your mind — to somebody you’re not totally attracted to?
And even if you are attracted to them — which in many cases happens, because the clients aren’t all ugly or hideous — what does it do to you when you go and do what you only ever wanted to do with that one particular person?
It rapes your mind, it fucks with you, and it destroys you.
I’m speaking from my own experience.
Now, having said that — there are many sex workers out there who’ve managed to make a great life out of it. They love what they do, and that’s all good.
But I’m speaking to those who don’t love it — and who need a way out.
So here’s what we do — the same process I used with myself:
1. Understanding the Real Why
First and foremost, it’s about figuring out:
Do you need the money?
Can you do something else?
Because there’s an addiction here — the addiction to fast money.
It’s that feeling of: I spend 30 minutes with someone, maybe an hour, and I make 150 bucks.
Do that every day, 20 times a month — and yes, you can live off it.
So that’s the first thing we need to understand.
2. Reconnecting to What You Want
After a while, you don’t even know what you want to do anymore.
That’s where I step in — to help you find direction again.
To reconnect with what’s real, with what’s you.
3. Building Your Exit Plan
We’ll work together to gradually get you out — by understanding what’s connected:
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The selling of your body and why you do it
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The drug use and emotional cycles that often come with it
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The dependency on fast money
Then, we build a new way of life — whether that means going self-employed, finding a new job, or starting something you’ve always wanted to do.
I’ll help you write your CV, find direction, and take practical steps toward stability and freedom.
4. Coming Home to Yourself
This is probably the biggest challenge of all — because after years of living this life, you no longer know who you are.
That’s where I stand with you — not above you, not judging you — but with you.
I’ve been there. And I know how to walk out of it.
💬 The goal isn’t just to quit escorting — it’s to rebuild your self-worth.
You don’t need to be fixed. You just need to find your way back home to yourself.
⚡THE PROCESS
It all starts with a 30-minute F*ckFear Clarity Call (€79)
one truth, no sugar-coating.
You bring your biggest challenge,
and I’ll tell you what you need to hear — not what you want to hear.
This call cracks illusions, breaks comfort zones,
and sparks real aha-moments — sometimes even a full mindset shift.
💭 (34% of the time, this call alone is enough.)
Afterwards, we take 24 hours to reflect.
If we vibe, I’ll design your personalised Hardcore Reset Programme
a 30-day deep dive with three sessions
(60–120 min each, every 10 days).
Or we’ll continue with occasional sessions
I’ll tell you what’s best.
Then comes the Afterwork Phase
1 monthly session for 3–6 months,
where new habits deepen and the old ones lose power.
💰 Investment:
Sliding-scale, adjusted to your income
because transformation shouldn’t be a luxury. (Usual Investment 1200-2800)
🔥 My Guarantee:
If no aha-moment or mindset shift happens during your F*ckFear Call,
you’ll be fully refunded the same day.
👉 Start with your F*ckFear Call
(END OF YEAR PROMO FROM 75 TO 49 EUROS)


💬 What I Do
I work with individuals, couples, families, and even organisations through crisis, trauma, loss, and all the shadows:
Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you.
HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others.
Building your own business (even your own website).
Rebuilding your body and health without shame.
Attracting better people — including that special someone.

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Accept that something is off

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Stop The Blame Game & Take Responsibility


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Start being Kind to Yourself
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Get Help & Allow Yourself Invest in Yourself

Why most people can't find a good coach
1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.
2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.
3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.
🚫 Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now
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Stop seeking approval.
You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.
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Stop avoiding discomfort.
Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.
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Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility.
Every excuse is just fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.
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Stop comparing yourself.
Your life is not a race. Comparison is self-sabotage.
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Stop lying to yourself.
Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.