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AlekMartin aka Whitetrashroyal.com
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💬 What I Do

 

I work with individuals, couples, families, and even organisations through crisis, trauma, loss, and all the shadows:

 

Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.

Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.

Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.

Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you.

HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.

Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.

 

And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:

 

Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others.

Building your own business (even your own website).

Rebuilding your body and health without shame.

Attracting better people — including that special someone.

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The Fact

As a parent, you are both the victim and the aggressor in the same person — and that’s what you need to understand!

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Accept that something is off

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Stop The Blame Game & Take Responsibility

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Start being Kind to Yourself

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Get Help & Allow Yourself Invest in Yourself

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Why most people can't find a good coach

1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.

2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.

3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.

🚫 Top 5 Things You Need to Stop Right Now

 

  1. Stop seeking approval.

    You’ll never build your life if you’re busy living for someone else’s applause.

  2. Stop avoiding discomfort.

    Walk through the pain — otherwise the pain will keep guiding you. Growth never comes without it.

  3. Stop making excuses and blaming — take full responsibility.

    Every excuse is just fear in disguise. Responsibility is freedom.

  4. Stop comparing yourself.

    Your life is not a race. Comparison is self-sabotage.

  5. Stop lying to yourself.

    Until you’re radically honest, nothing will change.

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